Do you really love him, honey. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. Of course, your parents will care most. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself.




I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. I didn't even believe. So basically we were lies to for years. The point made was that a parallel can be drawn between interfaith and interracial marriages. Should either of you sisters raise your children and wonder what faith will they choose. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet.
I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. March 18, Run for the hills. Pin It on Pinterest. But is it the path that will make you the happiest. But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. What about the folks at church.
She may never join the join the church. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves. You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world. It's like talking to a wall. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides.